To me anger is an emotional and/or situational response of dissatisfaction, whether incited from others or internalized from within, carried to a negative extreme.
Researching the word Anger, in the New International Version Scripture (crosswalk.com), I found 260 occurrences. Reading each one, God seems to be angry most of the time in the Bible. I see this displayed notably throughout the Old Testament.
God was angry with individuals (Exodus 4:14; 2 Samuel 6:7). God was angry with people as a favored group who would not comply with His Laws, Prophets, and Kings (Exodus 32:12; 1 Kings 14:9). God was also angry at cities and nations, even His own (2 Kings 24:20). We even get a mental picture of God's anger from Job when he submits this comment - At the breath of God they are destroyed; at the blast of his anger they perish. (Job 4:9) Paul makes a sweeping statement that seems appropriate for this side of God. It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. (Hebrews 10:31)
God's anger is always justified. But I would be singing and praying like David when he said O LORD, do not rebuke me in your anger or discipline me in your wrath.(Psalm 6:1) Jeremiah even prays this line of thought when he said, Correct me, LORD, but only with justice-- not in your anger, lest you reduce me to nothing. (Jeremiah 10:24) David at least seemingly tried to redirect God's anger - Arise, O LORD, in your anger; rise up against the rage of my enemies. Awake, my God; decree justice. (Psalm 7:6)
The Old Testament does shine some rays of hope on God's wrathful side. David helps us again by saying,
- For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; (Psalm 30:5).
- Will you be angry with us forever? Will you prolong your anger through all generations? (Psalm 85:5)
- But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness. (Psalm 86:15)
- The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever; (Psalm 103:8-9)
- The LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love. (Psalm 145:8)
- "Do not follow other gods to serve and worship them; do not provoke me to anger with what your hands have made. Then I will not harm you."
The Good News is the LORD [Father God] has laid on him [Christ] the iniquity of us all. (Isaiah 53:6) The punishment of God, the wrath of God has been satisfied for those who choose to believe and accept Christ's sacrifice as their redemption to Father God. Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God's wrath remains on him. (John 3:36)
With this provision of salvation came victory over anger. So, how does The Word of God say we should deal with anger? Let's start off with David again, shall we?
- In your anger do not sin; when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent. (Psalm 4:4)
This sounds a whole lot like and agrees with Ephesians 4:26 which states -
- "In your anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,
Keeping it in the family, what did the Holy Spirit prompt Solomon to pen?
- A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)
- A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control. (Proverbs 29:11)
Paul and James step into the mix with some advice. Paul tells us twice, once in a letter to the church in Ephesus, the other in a letter to the church in Collossae to get rid of anger among other things.
- Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. (Ephesians 4:31)
- But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. (Colossians 3:8)
So, as challenging as it is sometimes, the "righteous life", the justified life filled with integrity of character, which requires a check on anger is what it's all about and what I am encouraging. Let God handle anger for Himself and for you. Otherwise we could be living a life where we often say something like - "Mr. McGee, don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry." (David Banner to Mr. McGee on the t.v. show "The Incredible Hulk")